How to Get a Rosebud

by Chris Ward
Rose gardens are, perhaps, the hardest form of flower bed to maintain. They require constant attention to detail, and are much more labor intensive than other types of gardening. The end result, however, are big, bright, multipetaled blooms that are a delight to the eye...

Much the same thing can be said about roses that sprout from butt holes. Whether you love them or hate them (and the fisting community seems pretty much evenly divided between the two groups), they are an amazing thing to behold. But they don't come easy. Indeed one of the signs you are dealing with a very experienced fister is a rosebud: you can't get one from fisting once a month--it requires a hard core devotion to handballing that few people have the time or energy to undertake. Perhaps the fact that they are pretty rare is what makes a rosebud so special.

One day lat year, I decided I want to have a rosebud. I liked the look of them--they always get my dick big and hard, even in the dark light of the sleazy sex clubs I like to frequent. As much as the visual, I get off on the feel of that big sloppy rosebud hole--I like those mushy ass lips as they wrap themselves around my hairy wrist. I like when the bottom pushes his insides out into the world for me to play with.

How do you get a rosebud? How do you maintain it? Does it mean you have to wear Depends Underwear for the rest of your life? These are some of the questions I would like to answer in this posting on advanced fisting techiques. I don't claim to know everything, but I thought I might share some of my experiences for those that are interested. If you are not into rosebuds, you might want to pass on the rest of this post--it gets pretty graphic.

Rosebuds come thru hard work. I had regularly been fisted as a bottom for about once a week for three or four years. My hole was certainly not virgin, but it was still pretty tight. I could take a fist pretty quick, but there was no sign of a rosebud by any stretch of the imagination. I began to analyze rosebuds that I played with--what made them stick out like that? The way to get a rose bud seemed to be 1)to stretch the outer ring of the ass hole (the exterior sphincter) so that it would stay open in an invitingly gaping state when relaxed and 2) to get the interior tissues to the point that they are pliable enough to hang down thru the hole when relaxed or pushed out.

Here is how to do it. First, change your fisting habits for a while. Most fisters are preoccupied with the "how deep can I go today" mentality. Normally this is fine, but it has nothing to do with rose buds. Instead, you need to focus on the lower part of the butt--say the area below the second sphincter. Butts get tired from deep probing, and rose gardening requires long, long, play. If you wear yourself out with deep fisting, your endurance will be cut too short. The best type of fisting to grow a rosebud is to have the top go all the way in with his fist over and over again, basically building up to punch fisting. Two hand stretching can be useful, but remember that you do not want to wear yourself out. An ideal rose bud developing session should last at least an hour, and if possible, longer. The only way to get the sphincter to stretch to the point that it can stay open big and wide when relaxed is to have a hand up there for hours on end. Punching also helps with the other essential feature of rosebud development--it helps make the interior intestinal lining more pliable. One key tip in how to fist when doing this is to punch the fist in, and the yank it out pretty fast while it is all balled up (just make sure the fingers are tucked well into the fist so they will not be irritating on the pull out). If the butt hole is to tight to take a fist on the way in, use the typical fingers first method, but then, once inside, ball your hand into a fist for the pull out. This, infact, is probably the most important tip I can give on this topic.

A second important thing to do is to play frequently with big dildoes. This is what did it for me. I have this black dildo (they call it Victor in the stores) and it is huge, with a head that is much larger than its body. By popping this thing in and out at high speed, it creates a suction that will help drag the rosebud materials down thru the hole.

Finally, the last thing a bottom needs to do to get a rosebud is to practice "pushing out." This is very important as well. One needs to be able to have a big gapping hole and then put internal pressure to push the insides down thru the opening--this is like shitting, but you have to do it even harder. The feeling is amazing when it happens--almost better than being fucked! And the coolest part is when you can push out your rose bud and then clamp down on it with your sphincter ring--and guess what! You have your own built in living dildoe that sings every time you squeeze on it!

Be cautioned, however. Pushing out can shut down your butt pretty fast--so save the rosebud displays until the end of your fisting sessions!

It seems to me that frequency of rosebud building play is the key to success. I went from no rosebud to a pretty fine one (about as big around as a baseball) in about one to two months of work--but I did increase my butt play from once a week to three to five times a week. This requires lots of work, but the end result is well worth it.

After I had my rosebud for a few months, I simply could not maintain the level of play that kept it big and open. I went back my old habits, and my butt got tighter--but the rosebud, even if not as big as before, is still there. And yes, I can still clamp down on a dick or a fist as tight as any fister. My rosebud now is there only when I want it--and after a good play session I can still put on a pretty fine display. Also, I didn't notice any problems with butt hole control during daily life activities, so don't let that worry you into not giving rosebuds a try.

OK: now here is a commercial plug, but hey, its very appropriate. If you want to see me as a top in action bringing out the best rosebud you have ever seen on film, check out the stuff I do to Mark Evrett in PowerFist. It is by far the best rosebud footage ever filmed (the only thing that comes close is some footage I saw in an old Christopher Rage movie from the early '80s).

Anyway, give these tips a try. And If any of you guys have something to add to this, please email me! I want to put all these "how to" postings on my web page.